I have sought extra training in relationship therapy through the Relational Life Institute, the Gottman Institute, and the Prevention and Relationship Enhancement Program (PREP), among other programs. I once worked as a consultant in the couples’ communication workshops put on by the PREP program at the University of Denver, where this program was developed. I find that couples can help one another with their individual growth, as well as improving their relationship. For this reason, I ask each member of the couple to be open to working on his or her own issues that may be getting in the way of better relational behaviors and connection.